How Can We Help?
Sleep
๐๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ต๐ฎ๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ผ๐?
Youโre struggling to fall asleep.
Your mind is still going a hundred miles a minute and wonโt shut off.
As each minute ticks by, you feel the possibility of sleep slipping through your hands like sand through an hourglass.
Thoughts flood your head of how early you need to get up the next day and how many things you need to get done – youโre going to be so tired tomorrow.
The fear of sleeplessness takes over. Now you canโt sleep simply because youโre afraid you wonโt be able to.
๐๐๐ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ถ๐ณ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฎ๐ป๐ด๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ธ ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ผ๐๐ ๐ฎ ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฎ๐น๐๐ต๐ ๐ป๐ถ๐ด๐ต๐ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐๐น๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฝ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐๐น๐ฑ ๐ต๐ฒ๐น๐ฝ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ณ๐ฟ๐ผ๐บ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ธ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ณ ๐๐ฝ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ป ๐ถ๐ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ฒ๐๐ปโ๐ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐น๐?
Catherine Sanders, Bower Place director, has suggested a couple of different ways of looking at a good nightโs sleep.
In the Middle Ages, people commonly practised two-phase sleep, where they would wake up in the middle of the night for a few hours to get some chores done or socialise before going back to sleep until morning.
Thereโs also a strategy taken from Ordeal Therapy: you get out of bed if you canโt fall asleep after 15 minutes and do a simple chore before trying again.
The idea behind both of these options is to interrupt the self-perpetuating anxiety about lack of sleep.
Perhaps conceptualising things differently helps to ease distress about a problem and keeps it from becoming an even bigger issue than the problem itself.